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3 Secrets About Men Every Women Should Know

Written at Sunday, January 31, 2010 | back to top

1) Men can separate their life from their relationship

Most men know how to get themselves emotionally charged for each of these two components on separate occasions. They don't seem to connect them together and view them as separate areas. If it's work they have to focus on now, they'll give their 100%, and concentrate on getting a good job done.

If it's a problem they have to think about solving for their buddies, they'll pour their whole heart and soul into resolving the issue, so much so that other concerns (including love and romance) have to step aside first. If it's love they have to focus on during a particular moment, they'll also give their 100%, and they can be absolutely romantic!

For women it's different. Once she has accepted a guy into her life, her relationship literally becomes her life! She finds it difficult to separate these two. She'll have the man of her life in her mind throughout every single minutes of her day! Her thoughts are filled with images of him, during work, during play, in the midst of her meeting during work, and even during her leisure time!

2) Men usually keep to themselves, unwilling to talk, explain, elaborate further if they don't want to.

But this doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you, and it definitely doesn't mean that he doesn't love you. He just need to not talk about anything RIGHT NOW, there and then.

If you feel that your guy is responding in an unloving, unromantic and distant way, it's useful to think that guys have an inner secret chamber where once in a while they have to go in for their own retreat, to settle their own issues, to recharge, to live out their own fantasies, or even their dreams. No one else is allowed inside, not even his parents.

3) A man's self worth comes from his sense of competence and success in life

Not only from his relationship. If a man feels that he is not doing a good job in the office, has not being very helpful to another person, has failed in completing a task in and outside of the house (whatever it is), he will NOT be loving towards himself, or even you. This is why it is important that you do not jump into conclusion too quickly in the event that you feel that your man seems unloving, seems to be neglecting you, or doesn't seem to care. In short, your assumptions or conclusion could be misleading or wrong!

Do not give up your individuality and dignity after you have gone into a relationship. Remember, you do not need to earn his love for you by giving up who you are. One of the most important, key secret to maintaining a loving and long- lasting relationship with the man of your life is actually this: you still respect and love yourself, for who you are!

If you respect and love yourself, your man will respect and love you!

STONING

Written at Monday, January 25, 2010 | back to top

You guys must be wondering why I'm blogging right now all of a sudden and here I am to say my school life totally sucks. Damn hardcore!!!

Today was totally awesome man!!! No I meant full of shit. Just imagine you have 10 babies to take care of, spoonfeed and make them sleep at one time???? Had 2 presentations and ICA today. All 3-in-1. Gotta sniff glue tonight.

And, e exciting part was tis unknown guy collapsed and fainted on e ground just outside our lecture room. Probably he's kinda sniff glue desperately. ***ATTENTION: Just dun go to tis poly. It totally makes ur life miserable. Trust me. Even Yr 1 students are all complaining about e negative side of sch life.

Im not kidding at all.

Written at Saturday, January 9, 2010 | back to top

I cried all of a sudden! If you guys don't believe, go ahead and ask Chris, Wayne, Sun, Malcolm and Yamuna. They were all there w me watching Avatar 3D. It's not worth it watching it in 3D. There isn't any excitement or more great impact into it. I rather watch 2D instead. It's totally a nice movie.

Terrific! I was so touched by Jake Sully's concern and how strong his love is towards e avatar lady,I forgot her name anw her real name Zoe Saldana haha but in e end, he chooses to stay in the world of Avatar just to be w her. Isn't that sweet!!! Awww!!! Love has all its struggles and pain but its worth e wait afterall when you and her has finally settled together. How I wish I could have him by my side right now. Well, too bad. I won't have him anw :P

Today had a real bad cough and I puke at 645am in e morning. Guess wat?? Idk whether I saw a blood as I puke it out. My cough is terribly awful and bad. Worse still. I had running nose too. Just pray hard to get well soon before Mon, when school starts again. Talking bout sch, ICA results released. Out of three, I failed stats. Better get help from my classmates and sumone got full marks sia! Better teach us hor

This cumin Wed, 13 Jan gonna have the Installation Preparation from 6pm-8pm. Need to have a briefing about it. Boring!!! Seriously dun wanna cum bt hav to since I was totally MIA for sooooooooooooooooooo LONG haha And Im so proud to say that I've been promoted to Junior Ambassador. Woohoo!!! I'm so happy:) The event will be comin up so I need at least 5 of my friends to turn up pls by 17 Jan.

Well,here's a final say just to wrap up my post for today:

"It is on our failures that we base a new and different and better success."

lotsoflove mariemaria

Deprived Taurus

Written at Tuesday, January 5, 2010 | back to top

Let's talk bout Miss Taurus, shall we???
Well, I was born on 12/05/1989 and my horoscope: Taurus
If you read it below, it's more or less true but try not to believe it coz it's just fated if u were to believe it.

You aren't necessarily like a Bull in a ring with a toreador. You could be more like peace-loving Ferdinand, seeking the gentle meadows filled with flowers, sunshine and natural beauty. It's only your stubbornness that can make you angry enough to charge at someone who is disturbing your peace.You Bulls are noted for your determination. You get to where you are going, not because you are exceptionally fast or clever, but because you will not be distracted from your goals. Your need for stability and simplicity can motivate you to create a life for yourself that is quite functional, though it might seem boring to someone else. But you aren't interested in taking unnecessary risks that can put your solid footing in jeopardy.

Your motto might be "Take care of the senses and everything else will take care of itself." It may be that your attraction to material things is less about the objects themselves than it is about the pleasure they bring to your senses. Comfortable living and working space is important to you, along with nice linens, clothing, food and music. And, as one of the most practical signs, your outlook on life is usually quite sensible.

As you plod along in life, getting what you need in order to survive, don't forget to look at the beauty that is beyond the material world of material possessions.

In love, it's hard to let it go even if ur friends insists you to end ur relationship though. Am I still in love with him??? Let's take it as a small step-by-step way. Follow through and woalla!! Truly happy:0 I guess so....

If you're always looking for reasons not to be with someone, you'll always find them. And I guess at some point, maybe you should let go and finally give your heart what it deserves.

If you judge people, you have no time to love them.

-Mother Teresa-